We are not alone…there are families feuding with one another and are being denied visitations with their grandchildren, who had nothing to do with the disagreement and are innocent children that are missing out on some very wonderful life experiences with their grandparents.Many of our readers have shared that they too had always been there for their children but as soon as they chose to begin living their own lives the children became angry and needed to take “Control” and deny visitation.
Yes, it is absolutely true that several years ago there were some harsh words said between my daughter and myself but to continue to hold a grudge over words spoken is just not healthy and to continue dramatizing this situation as if a vicious crime was committed is totally preposterous.
Many of our readers are choosing to not stay in contact with their families because as several stated “does no good, because anything we say or do will be twisted around to "prove" to them that they were right.” We too understand this so clearly…our words have been misconstrued and we have repeatedly been called liars…we have always been truthful and upfront about all the situations and maybe it’s hard for them to face the truth about things that they do not want to believe and it may not be what they want to hear but it will and has always be the truth.
Through the lessons on the Oprah/Eckhart Event, we are learning how to live in this moment, not dwell on the past and understand that the only person in this situation I can change is ME! I know I raised a very strong, independent, loving, kind and gentle daughter who has just been temporarily misguided, she will come around and soon understand that mistakes happened but true forgiveness will prevail.
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